Saturday, November 20, 2010

Adventures

So I haven't blogged for awhile, and it's been even longer since I put up any pictures. I'm realizing that my distaste for taking pictures is having a real impact on fodder for blogging.

Well, I'll give you what I've got.

The boys went out the other night to the sand dunes where they played king of the mountain, desert style. When they came home, well, I'll let you decide. This is my favorite Aussie Josh.

I decided to poke fun at him and how dirty he was. Then he got this tired/annoyed look on his face.

AND HE ATTACKED ME (pictures not included...I was fighting for my life after all) After the attack, where he gave me a sweaty hug and rubbed his hair in my face...I was nearly as sandy as he was. The punk!



So I moved on to bigger and better things. Teaching Eli to cut hair. Here, Spencer submits to the first attempt of Eli's razor. He wanted a 'special' haircut for spirit week.


I had to do the finishing touches..

Isn't he cute?







Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Serve

How can I love something and completely detest it with all of my heart at the same time?

Usually after a successful moment with it, I am entirely and incandescently happy. But getting myself to move and start can be comparable to writing down an appointment to see your proctologist (not that I've ever had an appointment with a proctologist).

What I found this last quarter (after completely failing at my job on so many levels) is that I cannot fake this service stuff.

Oh! For sure, I can go through the actions. I know dorm/school schedule. I can be in the right place at the right time doing the right thing for the right amount of time and look great doing it! But I was daily leaving my grace, kindness, joy, and even gentleness and patience somewhere that only I could find it. I guess I felt the need to keep them locked away just for me.

The work got done.

The kids learned stuff.

But I was faking.

Did I really care that my job is to serve? Serving with my heart, not just my brain or my hands. I don't think I did.

Faking being a servant. Each time I took over the dorm for the dorm parents, but was bitter about it, I was faking. Helping this kid with homework and letting him get on my nerves...fake servant. Losing patience with the slacker chore team after having to refocus them...again. Faker!!

It finally took one of my friends taking me by the shoulders and letting me know that I was being

selfish
ridiculous
a jerk
fill in the blank

I am proud to report that a change has taken place. Granted, it's a change I have to choose every day, but my heart is serving with the rest of me now. I cleaned up kid barf this week and ya know what? I didn't mind. This is going to sound ridiculous, but it was fun to serve the kid and the dorm parents in that moment. When my heart and my hands are doing the same thing, I can actually feel the pleasure of God in the work I do.





This following God thing is hard work!

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Bedtime

I love bedtime! For several reasons actually. However, mostly I like it because I get to go into each room and hang out and pray with the kids for a few minutes before they go to sleep. I firmly believe the best conversations happen just before bed. It is at that time that the children calm down and perhaps become more vulnerable, insightful, and willing to discuss hardships and issues facing them as young people in this current difficult age. I leave you with some examples.

"Hey, Aunt Cindy! Last night I popped the biggest zit ever!".....fifteen minutes later...."and it was so disgusting!" Thank you for that inspiring and thorough description...?

"OK, when he's done with his joke, I have one!".........25 minutes pass........"So there were these three guys..." I'm just wondering, why do these three guys always hang out? It seems only odd and awkward things ever happen to them. They need new friends. "Aunt Cindy! That was awful!"

"That kid (down the hall) has the smelliest feet ever! It has been proven using the scientific method! I was sitting here and everything smelled fine. He walked in an about a minute later it smelled like death in here!" Really? That's the scientific method? Interesting.

"Dude (to his roommate), you have the worst smelling farts! Aunt Cindy is in here, Control yourself!" Bless that child!

Would you rather be smart or good-looking? "Well, Aunt Cindy, I'm already good-looking so I guess I'd have to say I'd rather be smart." Dude, you are never going to get a girl. "Yes, I will."

"Hey, let's set up Aunt Cindy and _____________." The blank has been filled with any number of people. It seems to be a recurring theme. How am I supposed to respond to this conversation? Ideas? Anyone? We're trying to learn about how even adults can have platonic relationships, but it would appear this concept is not sinking in.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Stopped by the Police With a Van Full of Kids

"Bonjour, Hello" -policeman

hmmm...if I pretend to only speak English he may get frustrated and leave me alone. I'll just hand him my drivers license.

"Hello!" -me

"Ah, you have your permis de conduire." -him

Crap! He speaks English. I reach for the paperwork out of the cubby.

"I don't really know what you need," as I hand him a stack of papers and a bunch of junk he doesn't need.

"Oh, you don't know what you need. Well, I will teach you. You need this permis de conduire and this registration and...this (pointing to a number)...this....this...you know this. No?

"Oh yes, that number." (whatever the heck that number is for) -me

I think this guy just wants to show off his English skills. I can use this!"

"Wow! Your English is fantastic! Well done! I'm very impressed!" -me

"Oh, (nervous laugh) thank you so much." -him

"And this is everything I need?" (widen eyes a bit) -me

"Yes. Yes. You have everything you need." -him

Oh my goodness! Thank you! You just made my day better! I'm all set for driving, and I have all my paperwork! That's wonderful!" (flash big smile) -me

"Oh, no problem, no problem." (laughs heartily) "Thank you." (shakes my hand) -him

"You have a nice day! Thank you so much!" -me

"OK. Have a nice day." -him

Drive off. No ticket today for breaking any made up Nigerien rules!

Friday, September 3, 2010

And They're Back

Oh my goodness!
It looks like someone blew up Payless.
A sure sign that my kids are back home!

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Harney Peak



Today I climbed Harney Peak in SD. I love this place! I leave to go back to Niger in 2 weeks. What am I thinking?


Oh yeah! I remember!




Monday, June 14, 2010

I Confess to the Stolen Pictures

I should have known. I finally get my apartment REALLY clean (I love Ladi) and the next day....Ransackary!

DUST STORM!!!

This happened about 3pm...but it got so dark in my house that I tripped over a chair. The dust storm usually precedes a thunderstorm. We got a few drops of rain, but by the time it made it to the ground it was just mud. Drops of mud.


Yahoo for Angela taking pics with her friends

And for Chantelle and friends who take amazing photos! Check out her blog!

And now I'm back in SD...just in time for this. This is my brother & sister-in-law's house and farm.

Thanks Tiffany for the pictures of your own ransackary!

Friday, May 28, 2010

Coming Home

I'll be home in just a few weeks. It's hard to believe the year is over, and at the same time it feels like I've been here forever. I'm on a good computer so maybe a few pictures will download after many long weeks of none.

My awesome drama cast in all their glory.


Hanging out at Mango Camp


Josh sporting the Pastor Dave look for Look-Alike-Day at Spirit Week.


Nothing like a little Harmattan wind blowing in some sand from the Sahara. This is the sun at about 5:30pm


CAMPING!!!


Firewood for sale. That is not fog, it's dust.


"Hey, honey! Guess what I bought today!" Guinea Fowl!

I'm coming on June 14. I can't wait to see everyone and hear all of your stories!

Thursday, May 13, 2010

More Mail

Dear Sonitel,
You, unlike Nigelec will receive no sympathy from me. For the past several weeks we are living here with no internet...in all of the city! How embarrassing for you. And yet, when we inquire as to the purpose of this outage what do we hear? "Je ne se pas." You what? How can you not know! I'm certain we are not the only disgruntled people coming in here to light a fire under your tush! No one likes you right now! You're lucky the other company is twice as expensive as you are otherwise no one would return.

That being said. I'm glad you're back.
<><
Cindy

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

An Open Letter

Dear Nigelec,
I don't envy your job. Being the only power company in Niger has to be a tough spot to be in, but we need to talk. I know you are a native Nigerien, but even your fellow patriots are complaining about the heat. While I understand that you have it rough, I mean, it's not like Niger can provide with your power source. We appreciate all the work you do in making nice with Nigeria to get us the power. But really, it's time to stop stopping! You see, it is 120 degrees out here...every day. Do you understand what that means?

-That means my house is about 100 degrees all the time.
-That means the dorm kitchen is completely unbearable! I don't have the heart to check the temperature in there!
-That means the magnets melted to the refrigerator door. Have you ever tried getting melted magnet off a door?
-That means I have to teach in a room full of nineteen super sweaty 9th and 10th graders. I love them. Really, I do! But Wow! That room is...well...stinky!

Also, you keep shutting down during the worst times in the evening! What is your problem? I have 8 kids trying to shower and get ready for bed when you decide to die. Do you know how frustrating it is to find some sort of lighting for 8 kids who are stuck in the showers on 3 different halls? I get the feeling you're enjoying this. And if that isn't bad enough, about the time I get lighting for them all, you come back on! Just long enough for them to get to bed and have their A/C's cool down their rooms. I, having all kids in bed and quiet, jump in my own shower...and what do you do? Seriously! What's your problem? What did I ever do to you? OH!!! and I forgot! Since the rest of town is out of electricity, we can't pump water into the water tower! I've just been running around and am looking forward to my (I wish I could say cold) almost hot shower and when I turn the water on what do I find? Yeah...that's right...a trickle! If I run around enough I know I'll eventually get wet enough to sleep.

OK...so I may have exaggerated a bit. After all, we do have a generator here that helps out quite a bit. I confess it isn't all that bad. But please, Nigelec, let's work together. Let's at least be friends...or enemies who respect one another and share resources.
Come on, Nigelec, what do you say?

Cordially,
Cindy

Saturday, April 10, 2010

A Random Sighting

The Nigerien military carts soldiers around in pickups with big benches in the back. Today, as I was waiting at a stoplight, one of these pickups came barreling out of the round-about in the opposite lane. Movement caught my eye. I focused my eyes and watched as a soldier threw himself off the pickup and ran towards his gun he had dropped in the middle of the road.

I stifled a laugh...they don't always have the best sense of humor.

Nigerien tax dollars at work, my friends.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

I Work With MKs

And I'm still trying to figure out what that means.

Check out this.

Friday, March 26, 2010

SPRING BREAK!

The kids are gone.

I'm reading books.

Lesson planning's fun

But I'm not hooked.

I try to get off campus

Each moment that I may

Today I went to the tailors

And ordered a complet (said in french...so it's 'complay')

I spend each evening out

Reviving my social life that's flat.

Niamey's so great.

I saw a dude eat a rat.



*ok...so I wasn't feel all THAT poetic today...stick with me though...I promise the next one will be better

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Quote of the Day - Kennedy who?

Steven: a junior whose parents are Togolese, but he was born in America where he has spent very little time.

"Aunt Cindy, do you remember what you were doing when you heard that President Kennedy died?"

"How old do you think I am?!!"

Kids!

Monday, March 15, 2010

Quote of the Day

Asyncrite (for whom English is a third language)

"Aunt Cindy, when I first met you, I thought you were going to be nice."
-- emphasis on the 'nice' part.



I just stared at him.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Grande Mosque

My friend Jenn took me to the Grande Mosque this Thursday.
Muslims pray five times a day. On Friday you are supposed to try to make it to the Grande Mosque. I've heard that all of this 'parking space' is full of worshipers on Fridays.

It was pretty cool. I was surprised how much the architecture resembled the Alhambra in Spain (a Moorish Palace Addie & I saw on our Amazing European Adventure)
Our tour guide guy was kinda grumpy. He just ran us through the building.
I think he was disappointed in our meager offering to the mosque.Anyway, so when you enter to pray (we were not praying) first you must wash (we didn't wash).


The 'religious leader' does the call of prayer from here. That's what the microphone is for.

Check out the carpet. each design is a prayer rug and is large enough for one man to kneel and pray.
He puts his forhead on the dome of the building. Everyone's heads will be facing east...toward Mecca, which is depicted on the rug.This is the overflow of the mosque. The men have two rooms that are huge and open all the time. The women's part was locked (interesting) and they had two tiny rooms...which I neglected to photograph...silly me.

Islam defines a Nigerien. So many elements of their life are tied into this religion. Although it is a strong enemy, we hear some incredible stories of God moving through this country. He's reaching for these people! Keep praying for Niger and her people. This is a hard land and it is in the clutches of a hard religion.
Hard, but not immovable.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Accreditation

A team came out this week to finalize the accreditation process of the school. We are glad they are finally here since they were supposed to come on coup d'etat weekend. However, because of the delay, only two of the four persons were able to come. A man and a woman.

On Tuesday they spent their time wandering around the school and poking in on several classes. The guy stopped in on the second half of my double period that day. I felt my heart drop. I was really hoping to have slipped under the radar on this one since I only taught one class. Oh well. There he was!

We are reading Pride & Prejudice in class and having a fairly good time doing it. Well, I am anyway. I tried to act pretty normal and just teach as if he wasn't there. He seemed to be enjoying himself so I almost forgot about him. The kids were great! They were excited about what we were doing and really participated in discussion. The regular kid only fell asleep once! It was amazing!

He sat there for nearly 20 minutes! I was thankful for the smile he had on his face or I might have died! When he finally left the room, I just sat on the floor in front of all my laughing kids. Just as my brain started to relax as the knowledge that the observation was finally over sank in, my door opened again and the lady walked in. EEEEEK!

Good thing I had stood up a few moments earlier.

She sat for about 5 minutes and left.

Game over!

This morning, as I walked out of the library the man stopped me. Here it comes, I thought. He's going to tell me Sahel would have been accredited if it wasn't for the insano English teacher.

"I really enjoyed your class and your enthusiasm for teaching! You are a good teacher." he said.

Immediately, I dropped my books and ran towards him. I tackled him in a giant bear hug while sobbing and blubbering something about Ms. Bennet and Caroline Bingly.

Oh, wait.

No I didn't.

It turns out, he's a really nice guy! He wasn't scary at all. We had a nice chat and then I left.

Except I couldn't stop smiling for a few hours.

A good day is improved.

Friday, February 26, 2010

Food Crisis

I live in one of the poorest countries in the world. All around me people are struggling for food, health and their very survival. This is the country you can stereotype as "typical Africa" with its poverty and pain so very evident all around. People living on $1 a day. Women walking miles to the nearest well. Children dying of diarrhea. One in every 7 women die a childbirth related death. Starvation is always waiting in the next dry season.

Niger is beginning to plan for a hunger crisis to hit in about March. Here's a great link to explain the situation. This was not a drought year, it was just a year when it rained on the harvest before it was in from the field. Please be in prayer for Niger. This food crises could affect over 7 million people. That is a lot of people!

Click here for an article about the food crisis.

Pefect Authority

Thursday, January 18, 2010. My day off. I was loafing around campus having spent the morning of my day off in meetings. I ate and chatted with the teachers then wandered over to the dorm. I decided it was in my best interest to check my email...again...and began considering going out on the town for a bit of shopping or friend visiting.

About 1:00, my musings were rudely interrupted by...what is that? Gunfire? Odd. The city seemed calm. There had been a student demonstration only 8 days before, but that is a scheduled demonstration (something about some university students being killed in...well...a few years ago on that date). What now? It sounded like it was right outside the compound.

Then the school siren sounded. Hmmmm. No lock-down drills scheduled for today. OK.
Wandering out into the kitchen I watched as Hadiza called her son and it was determined that a coup d'etat was taking place. Information leaked in and we learned that the Presidential Palace was being attacked. Well, that's quite a ways away...across the river and several kilometers down. For awhile, I sat and listened to tanks and machine gun fire, followed by some kind of whistling sound and what I assume to be teargas. Explosions rattled the building and my windows shook. But a girl can only take so much!

Naturally, I did the safe and mature thing and left the dorm to wander outside and see what everyone else was doing. About 1 hour had passed since the kids were put into lock-down. They were all sitting in the hallway or in classrooms that faced away from the gate. A large group of students were sitting in the middle of the corridor singing praise songs. Another group huddled around a computer watching a movie. There was a room for games. One for homework. And the art room was being used appropriately. The students remained very calm while they waited for updates. Some of them were obviously afraid for their parents, but teachers were calling parents to tell them that kids were alright, then would wander down the hall to tell the student they had talked to their parents. Elementary kids happily watched movies in their rooms. Some of the little ones were entirely oblivious to origin of all the din outside.

The shooting calmed down and by 5:00pm parents were called to come and get their kids. School was canceled on Friday. I guess in South Dakota we got snow days off, here in Niger, we have coup d-etat days...of course.

Niamey has calmed down quite a bit since that time. There is an obvious military presence, but stores and traffic are continuing as normal. A few quirky things have changed, but we adjust and continue as we are. Rumors fly around the city about the exact events that happened on that day, but we have peace at this point. Now we pray that God will guide the leaders of this country as they establish...well...something. Most of all, we pray that the Gospel will not only be allowed, but also encouraged to spread under this new authority.

When the day ended and all the students were home, each staff member sighed in relief. God was completely aware of everything that happened and was going to happen. He has called every one of us to this place at this time. There is a place for us in His awesome plan to spread his Gospel to every nation, tribe, and tongue. Sahel Academy was completely safe the whole time just because we are members of a greater Kingdom. A Kingdom that is never in jeopardy of a coup d'etat because it has a strong Authority who knows, loves, and protects. Always

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

A Moment Incredible

I love it when another teacher encourages you. They overhear students talking and pass on the message. The quote of today is, "I heard one student say, 'Life is never the same after Aunt Cindy enters it.'"

I confess I struggle with so much of teaching. To go into detail would only be whining, and some parents might pull their kid out of my class if they only knew what a tornado they sent their kids into each day. However, this job, in this place, with these kids is turning me into a lover of the trade. It's not always perfect, but I'm learning how to deal with various parts of the imperfections. I'm learning that my gift is helping people, if I would only use it responsibly. Now to work on time management so I can be the best English teacher God has created me to be.

We don't have carpet on the floor. We don't even have a white board! In fact, the chalkboard isn't even nice slate—it's a bumpy, chalk-eating, black one. Our class is really too big for the room, and 19 sweaty bodies at 1:30 in the afternoon when temps reach 120 outside make for a unique aromatic experience. Mr. Wyckoff habitually steals our podium so we constantly send a stealthy boy to Room 3 to snatch it back. The teacher's desk chair is broken; the arm rests keep falling off. Electricity is not dependable, and we can't run the A/C when the generator is on. We interrupted class last week to catch a wandering lizard and throw him back outside.


Niger is not an easy place. I deal with things here I never dreamed to discuss with my professors in college. But I get to read beautiful poetry cleverly disguised as glaring mistakes in research papers written by an ELL student. I sit back and smile while the boys in my class side with Mr. Darcy and attempt to convince the girls that Elizabeth Bennett is a jerk. Nineteen faces light up as they watch a half-crazed South Dakota farm girl introduce poetry with beautiful words from the acclaimed poet Paul Simon. I watch my students begin to trust each other as a poet leads us to discuss dreams, wishes and hurts.


All of us are a million miles from the homes our passports say we have, but here, in this room of fun and suffering, we find community.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Dentistry!

Tuesday nights I am on duty alone since the dorm parents have the day off. Generally the evening goes off hitch-free and I have all children safely in bed by 10:30. This Tuesday was to bring new adventures. As I walked into the little boy's room at 9:00 to send them to bed, I found Nat's hand on the door handle, tying string to it. On the other end of the string Zeb and Joshua are attempting to tie a string to Zeb's latest loose tooth. John is patiently sitting on the bed with a camera awaiting the action.

Now, as a responsible adult it is my job to find the happy balance in this situation. Is it best to stop the madness before something is damaged? (in this case, Zeb's face) or should I let boys be boys and have a fantastic memory for the rest of their lives. I, being the conservative, cautious, careful assistant, made this decision as I sat on my bed and asked John if the camera was set to video...it was.

They nearly had the string tied when Dorm Mom Janice entered and exclaimed at the stupidity of this situation and proclaimed that a tooth that is still bleeding is not ready to come out! I think Zeb's fortitude began to weaken at this point. I naturally shifted sides in the battle, since the boss was there, and retrieved a scissors. The next five minutes were spent with me attempting to snip the string out of Zeb's face and return the situation to normal. All were in bed by 9:30 and all teeth were present and accounted for. Adventure denied!

This kid is going to kill me. Good thing his dad is a doctor.

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Since I've Been in Africa

Since moving to Africa, I have

-received communion served from an old desk drawer.

-stood next to a wall on a street so that a camel with a load of hay can take up the entire road and pass by.

-avoided human poo as I went for a scenic nature walk on the river dike.

-turned down too many marriage proposals to count.

-received a Zarma name.

-walked home from church with a herd of cattle.

-watched people jet ski/water ski on the nastiest river I've ever seen.

-eaten roasted grasshoppers.

-caught a hedgehog.

-checked my bathroom for snakes...often.

-heard some amazing poetry escape the lips of English language learners.

-realized I need to work harder at my relationship with Christ!

-fallen asleep listening to rats and lizard scurry through the attic.

-avoided donkey carts while driving.

-watched myself start to think like a mom...which kinda weirds me out!

-made a wonderful African friend.

-walked within 15 ft of a giraffe.

-been trusted with a glimpse into the hearts and minds of 19 MK's who journal for me in every class.

-wanted to adopt every kid who lives in the local orphanage.

-played softball while a tortoise walks across home-plate.

-most importantly, I've learned to learn to pray.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Best Worst Excuse of the Day

"Where is Zeb? He knows it's time for bed." - me
"He's in the shower." - Josh, Zeb's friendly roommate
"Well he's late then. Guess he'll be going to bed a half hour early tomorrow." - me
"Oh, he told me to tell you that he got stuck in his pants and that's why he's late." - Josh

Whatever, Zeb.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Oh the Drama!

Ever feel like you may have overcommitted yourself but have yet to experience the weight of the overcommitment? Well, that's me. Drama class started today...which was super fun by the way. However, It is added to my responsibilities to the dorm and to my one English class. Everyone keeps telling the dorm parents, "Oh, Cindy's doing drama? I guess you won't have a dorm assistant this semester."

This is the last thing that I want to be true. I desire so much to do a good job in the dorm. After all, it's the best job I've ever had. But I also see the needs of the school and how I can fit into those needs and want to do that too.

I keep thinking if I just work a bit harder, get up a little earlier, go to bed a bit later, pray a touch more...that everything will be ok. I'm beginning to see some glaring flaws in this theory. Perhaps I'm so set on doing everything that nothing is getting done in a way that is glorifying to God.
Nevertheless, I am committed.

Hang on, folks! We're off and running!

Friday, January 15, 2010

Quote of the Day

To be stated by a junior while doing dishes and after singing a dorm-wide rendition of "Do a Deer".

"Hey! Can I go to my room and get my stereo so we can rock out to Veggie Tales and Disney and stuff like that?"

I love my MK's.

What a great life!